How to Make a Wish and a Vow (Bon-Baan) in Thailand

At many Thai shrines you'll see people whispering wishes and later returning with offerings. This is bon-baan (บนบาน) — making a vow — and it's central to Thai spiritual culture.

Wish vs vow

• A simple wish asks a deity or sacred image for help.
• A vow (bon-baan) adds a promise: "If my wish comes true, I will offer X in return." When it works out, you must come back and fulfill it (kae bon, แก้บน).

How to make a vow

1. Light incense and pay respect calmly.
2. State your name and your specific wish clearly.
3. Promise something you can realistically deliver — and remember, not fulfilling a vow is taken seriously.

Common redemption offerings

These vary by shrine and are often listed on each place's page — for example boiled eggs, garlands, dancing performances, firecrackers, or fruit and red soda. Match the offering the shrine is known for.

Tips for visitors

• Don't over-promise; a sincere small offering is fine.
• Keep a note of where you made the vow and what you promised.
• If you can't return in person, many people fulfill vows by making merit (donations, releasing fish) and dedicating it.

Treat it as a mindful act of hope and gratitude, paired with your own effort.

Beliefs are personal — please use your own discretion.